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Hate is Not a Family Value

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I have another excerpt from the book, “Signs of Hope: Ways to Survive in an Unfriendly World.”

This excerpt talks about how hate is not a family value. People spread hate, and don’t seem to care how it affects others.

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Chapter 42

 

Hate Is Not a Family Value

 

You have heard that it was said, “Love your neighbors and hate your enemy.” But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.

Matthew 5:43–44

 

I have had students say things to other children that I couldn’t help but think came from their own homes. Surely these 8–11-year-old children couldn’t have learned so much hate anywhere else. They learned about discrimination and bigotry right in their own homes—perhaps because the parents also grew up with hate and prejudice.

Hate should not be a family value, but it feeds on generations of hate. And it will not stop being handed down as long as each family member continues to let hate breed within them. Someone needs to break the chain so that it stops in this generation.

If you are one who fuels hate, prejudice or discrimination, it has to stop with you! We must realize that it can stop when each of us decides to do something about it and banish it from our thinking. We accomplish nothing by showing hate or even simply looking down on other people as “beneath” us. We are all people of worth, and we need to respect that in everyone.

Proverbs 22:6 reminds us of this important thought: “Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not turn from it.”

As parents and grandparents, change can start with us. We have the responsibility to teach our children to love and respect others. Imagine what a change there would in the world if everyone started to respect and love each other.

God didn’t create anything that wasn’t good. Each and every person (and thing) on earth was created by God. He does not make mistakes. He has a purpose for everything and everyone He created. Each of us has the same value to Him. Therefore, we should consider everyone around us as one of His creations and love them as we would love ourselves.

Hate never works any good in the end. We may try to hate, and shun someone, but we are the losers when we do. We wallow in our own mire and muck trying to hate our neighbors, but the only misery it causes is our own.

It really is so much easier to love someone than to work so hard at hating him or her. The stress level is much higher when you hate someone, and you never feel like you’ve won the game. Loving someone reaps many rewards—peace, for instance. Hating someone only destroys the crop—and eats away at you.

Avoid the rush. Be one of the first in your world to reach out and love those with whom who you’ve had conflict. They will be surprised, and may not react right away. But in the end they will respect you. They will have the burden on their shoulders to either accept your peace offering, or they will be the ones who get to wallow in the muck and mire.

Who would you rather it be—them or you?

 

But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.

Luke 6:27–28

 

Further Adventures

Think about what your parents taught you. Are they values you want to pass on to your children? Are they values you live by today? Do they teach tolerance and love? If not, do some soul-searching. For the sake of your children, take time to evaluate your thinking. If it isn’t quite what you think you want your children to know, do something about it. Get into the Word and see what God says about loving your neighbor—and yes, even loving your enemy.

 

Something to Ponder

Isn’t it funny that when you smile you have more face value?

 

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Love People and Use Things-Not Love Things and Use People

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The book, “Signs of Hope: Ways to survive in an Unfriendly World,” Is now available in the bookstore on this site. This books reaches out to those who may be suffering from anxiety, fear, depression, addictions, self-doubt, hopelessness, and the many other usual suspects. You probably know of someone in that boat, and this book can help them a great deal.

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Today there is another excerpt from the book, Signs of Hope Ways to Survive in an Unfriendly World.” It talks about what our priorities should be. We should put people first, and not things first.

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Chapter 39

 

                 Love People and Use Things—Not Love Things and Use People

 

Fear the Lord your God, serve him only and take your oaths in his name. Do not follow other gods, the gods of people around you; for the Lord, your God, who is among you, is a jealous God and his anger will burn against you, and he will destroy you from the face of the land.

Deuteronomy 6:13–15

 

People have idols they worship or hold in such high regard that the idol consumes them and nothing else matters. An example of this is the Beatlemania we went through in the 1960s or the rabid fans of Elvis Presley who unabashedly consider him their idol—even in the 21st century.

Every idol has his “groupies,” those who follow the idol everywhere, screaming, crying and fainting just because they’re in the same vicinity as their idol. Many times groupies wait for hours to see their idol come out of a hotel just to get a look at him—and maybe even get an autograph.

What makes a person get into such a frenzy over someone like the Beatles or Elvis is hard to comprehend, but it happens all the time with famous people. I think the Beatles were great. I loved many of their songs, but I wouldn’t go out and chase after them. Elvis Presley, too, had a tremendous following, and fans still make pilgrimages toGraceland. Never been there myself.

Having a false idol or god—whether it’s a person, a pastime or a possession—does not make the Lord very happy. It could be cars, gambling, money, a romance, or any number of things. In fact, it could be a legitimate interest, but it has taken over your life and has become more important to you than anything else, including your relationship to God.

When we fall into something that takes over our lives—something we know isn’t right for us—we need to get back to the basics of reading the Bible and having God be the only one we worship! It’s never too late to get back to God while we’re alive and breathing. We can’t until it’s too late.

We need to talk to God about our priorities and make sure they fall into this order:

God first

Family second

Our jobs third

It may seem hard to keep things in this order sometimes, but the rewards of doing so are much greater than we understand.

Putting God first may take some sacrifice on your part, but sacrifice is nothing to be ashamed of. God loves those who sacrifice for Him: “The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, you will not despise” (Psalm 51:17).

There is a huge difference between being religious and being a Christian. There are few things quite as boring as being religious (just going through the motions—“talking the talk”), but there is nothing quite as exciting as being a Christian (“walking the talk”). In fact, Christians should “talk the talk,” “walk the talk,” “walk the walk,” and “talk the walk.” Think about it.

You don’t need to try to live up to some idol like the Beatles or Elvis. Don’t compare yourself to them. Compare yourself to God. That should be your goal.

Do you need to hear this in surround sound? YOU DO NOT NEED TOTRYTO BE LIKE ANYONEELSE!

God knew you before you were born. He already had plans for you before He formed you in your mother’s womb.

You are as important to Him as Moses, Abraham or David. He had plans for them, and they helped change the world. Think about it: If you don’t become the person God planned for you to be, who will?

 

Death and Destruction are never satisfied, and neither are the eyes of man.

Proverbs: 27:20

 

Further Adventures

Read 1 Corinthians 10:1–22 (all the verses so you get the total meaning—no shortcuts!).

Take a good look at your own life and write down each thing that is important to you. Use a separate line for each item (your car, your job, your baseball card collection, etc.), leaving space between entries. Now cut the items into separate strips. Place them on a second sheet of paper in the order of their importance to you.

How much rearranging would you have to do if I now told you to put them in the order God desires? Go ahead and then tape each item down. You can use this visual reminder about your priorities and how to pray when they get out of whack.

 

Something to Ponder

Isn’t it funny that idols have many followers, but many of them have nowhere to go?

 

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I will do Anything to Move up the Ladder of Success

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I will be sharing another excerpt from the book, “Signs of Hope: Ways to Survive in an Unfriendly world,” in a minute. But first I want to let you know that the book is on sale right now on this site. In the retail stores, this book is $19.99, but on this site only it is $15.99. The shipping has been cut in half as well. A total savings of over $6.00. Just click on the “Bookstore,” tab at the top of this page to check it out.

This book reaches out to those who may be suffering from anxiety, fear, depression, addictions, self-doubt, hopelessness, and the many other usual suspects.

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Today’s excerpt talks about how some of us will do anything to move ahead in the world, even if it means stepping on someone’s toe along the way to do it.

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Chapter 37

 

For Sale by Owner

 

The man of integrity walks securely, but he who takes crooked paths will be found out.

Proverbs 10:9

 

As some people go through their lives they often plow through their days acting as if they are the king or queen. Have you sometimes wanted to let others know how important you are? Have you looked down on those who may not live up to your standards? Do you get depressed when things don’t go exactly as you want them to? (Come on! Be honest now.)

This thinking often leads to doing things that may be very unethical. What can I do to better myself—no matter what the cost? How can I move ahead in the world?

These thoughts may lead to a “tiny little sin”—maybe just telling a fib about someone, hoping it will spread to others. Soon the little fib has grown into a full-blown lie and the person you lied about suffers because of what you said.

After you have done this and gotten away with it, you decide to take another giant step and plant some damaging information about another employee where everyone can see it. Again the person is given a hard time by the rest of his or her coworkers, and the person you maligned leaves.

Now you’re on a roll! There are only a couple more people in your way, and then you are at the top.

This is probably about someone else, or is it? Have you done something similar to this? Is your climbing the ladder so important that you find ways to advance?

This is playing on Satan’s team—the Hell-Bound Desperados! The prince of darkness is whispering in your ear. He is telling you that hurting others to advance yourself is done by everyone else. Why shouldn’t you do it too?

Here are some other thoughts Satan may be whispering in your ear:

“Go get success at any price.”  However God says, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well” (Matthew6:33).

“Seek riches at any cost!” God says, “Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth … But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven” (Matthew 6:19–20).

“If it feels so good, do it.” But God says, “Not my will, but yours be done” (Luke 2:42). 1

Doing the evil it takes to advance yourself is like having a big sign on your chest that says, “For sale by owner.” (And the fine print will read: “Sold to the highest bidder.”) This is saying you’re willing to give up your soul to get the prize. You are letting Satan know that your soul can be used by him. You may get ahead in life, but your behind will be sitting in a very hot climate in death.

This all sounds pretty harsh for just telling a few lies so you can step over your fellow workers and advance. But if you feel your life is so important that no one can stand in your way, I have some “Death Valley” property in mind for you that has plenty of heat year-round. There aren’t any lemonade stands to cool you down either.

Are you thirsty for fame, power and material things? You will die of thirst. Those things are like water from the ocean. They don’t quench your thirst; they kill.

You need to hang a new sign on your chest that says, “Under construction.” God is never through letting us grow. We will always be tested. We are always faced with trials. The sign that is selling your soul to get ahead does not need to control your life. Get a scissors and cut that sign off your chest right now!

 

Like a club or a sword or a sharp arrow is the man who gives

false testimony against his neighbor.

Proverbs 25:18

 

Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord, and that he may send the Christ,

who has been appointed for you—even Jesus.

Acts 3:19–20 (emphasis mine)

 

(I had to end this with something positive to quench your thirst from all the heat you just read about!)

 

Further Adventures

Everything I said in this chapter probably will never happen in your life. You know what is right and wrong. You know that stepping on others is not the way to try to get ahead. Rising up the ladder of success, no matter what you have to do, is not part of your thinking. Right?????

 

Something to Ponder