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We Never Know When God Has Planted an Idea in us

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 We have been sharing excerpts from my new book, “Signs of Hope: Ways to Survive in an Unfriendly World.” This book reaches out to those who may be suffering from anxiety, fear, depression, addictions, self-doubt, hopelessness, and the many other usual suspects.

The book is on sale right now for Easter, which is getting very close. Check the book out by clicking on the “Bookstore,” tab at the top of this page.

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Today’s excerpt is about listening to God who has many ideas for us that could change the lives of others as well as ourselves.

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                                                                              Chapter 58

 

It Is Time to Bless God

 

How great is your goodness, which you have stored up for those who fear you,

which you bestow in the sight of men on those who take refuge in you.

Psalm 31:19

 

The young couple had only been married a couple months. It was September, and the wife started to think about what she would get her husband for their first Christmas together.

She thought a long time and decided exactly what she was going to get him. It was perfect, and she knew he would like it. She went to the store and made a deal with the owner. She said she would leave it on layaway and pay a little each week.

She was very faithful and was there at the same time each week to make the payment. After the fifth payment, the owner said, “Why don’t you go ahead and take it home. I know you’ll finish paying for it.”

“Are you sure?” she asked.

“Yes, I’m sure.”

She was very excited and took the present home where she wrapped it immediately.

When her husband got home from work, she rushed to him and said, “I have a Christmas present for you, and I want to give it to you now!”

“It’s only the first of October,” he reminded her.

“I don’t care,” she countered. “I just can’t wait for you to open it.”

The husband opened it and thought it was perfect—just like she did.

At work the next day, her husband, a rookie policeman, pulled over a car on a routine speeding ticket. As the officer approached the car, the driver pulled out a pistol and shot him two times—point blank—in the chest. The officer fell to the ground as the driver sped away.

An officer came to the door of the couples’ home. He asked if she was the wife of the officer he named.

“Yes.”

When told that her husband had been shot, she replied, “I’m so relieved.” (Her husband had been wearing the bullet-proof vest she had given him the day before!)

We never know when God has planted an idea in us. We often do things without being sure why we did them. Remember: God is completely in control. He planted the thought of buying the vest in the mind of this young wife. She followed through on what she was thinking, and it saved her husband’s life.

Maybe what we do won’t be quite as dramatic, but when we can’t shake an idea—especially one that seems out of character for us—we should check and see if maybe it’s a nudge from God and follow through on His prompting.

We should take time to bless God. We always say, “God bless you.” Take time to bless Him for giving you all the wonderful blessings He has provided for you. Everything we have belongs to God anyway, and He shares it with us.

 

I will praise you forever for what you have done; in your name I will hope, for your name is good. I will praise you in the presence of your saints.

Psalm 52:9

 

Further Adventures

This story was about a close encounter this young couple had with God. There are thousands of stories like this. God protects because He loves each of us. God had something in mind for this young family. Only time will tell.

What was your close encounter? Maybe you didn’t realize you had one. Many people do have them, but just pass them up as a “coincidence.” Think back to things that have happened to you that you have not been able to explain. Was that God working in your life?

 

Something to Ponder

Isn’t it funny that asking, “Where is God?” is like a fish asking, “Where is water?” or a bird asking, “Where is air?” (This thought is taken from Max Lucado.)

 

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We Will Reach Our Goals with Perseverance

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We have been sharing excerpts from my new book, “Signs of Hope: Ways to survive in an Unfriendly World.” This book reaches out to those who may suffer from anxiety, fear, depression, addictions, self-doubt, hopelessness, and the many other usual suspects.

The book is on a special sale right now for Easter, which is only about a eek away, so you need to order now. Just click on the “Bookstore,” tab above to check it out.

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Today’s excerpt is about perseverance. If we stick to our goals we will achieve them someday.

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Chapter 57

 

Inch by Inch, Anything’s a Cinch

 

To those who by persistence in doing good seek glory, honor

and immortality, he will give eternal life.

Romans 2:7

 

I was the superintendent of our Sunday school and on the Pastor-Parish committee, which worked closely with the pastor of the church in planning for growth, among other things. The pastor of was a man of vision. He saw what he felt the church should be like in the future and then went about asking the members to help him make that vision come true. He thought we should pave the parking lot, add on to the church to have more Sunday school rooms and acquire one of the houses next to the church as an activity center.

He used his vision one Sunday in a sermon he titled, “Inch by Inch, Anything’s a Cinch!” He told the congregation of his desire that we share his vision and plan for growth as a way to be ready for the future. He acknowledged this couldn’t be done overnight, reminding us that as we did little things to add to the church, the vision would be accomplished!

It has been more than 20 years since the pastor left that church. And when he left, many of his dreams had not been fulfilled. But he continued to believe that even after his leaving, there would still be many parts of his dream accomplished at the church.

Today, there is a paved parking lot with marked parking spaces. There is a new addition for the Sunday school program to expand into. There is even a nice-sized hall for wedding receptions. There are houses next to the church that have been bought and are used by the youth group.

The congregation has grown tremendously because of all of these changes and by God’s will. All of the visions the pastor had in his sermon many years before have been accomplished! It just took twenty years to reach them! “Inch by Inch, Anything’s a Cinch!”

Don’t ever give up on your dreams. God has His own plan, and He decides when it will happen. I know this from experience. Keep the course, and God will use your talents for Him, and it will be something that will please Him. Plus you will be serving God.

 

You know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

James 1:3-4

 

I tell you the truth, anyone who has faith in me will do what I have been doing. He will

do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.

And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Son may bring glory to the Father.

John14:12-13

 

Further Adventures

Is your church growing like it should? Does the church have a vision of what it should be like in ten years? Ask the pastor if there are any plans for the future. If there aren’t, mention that you would like to form a vision team to look for ways to help the church grow and see what changes may needed to help it do that. You could be doing God’s work and also help the church become a more dynamic church.

 

Something to Ponder

Isn’t it funny that if we would have faith as small as a mustard seed, nothing will be impossible?

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I Child-Proofed my House-and They Still Get in

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We have been sharing excerpts from my new books “Signs of Hope: Ways to Survive in an Unfriendly World.” This book is perfect for those on your Easter list that you have search for something encouraging to give them.

This book reaches out to those who may be suffering from anxiety, fear, depression, addictions, self-doubt, hopelessness, and the many other usual suspects.

Just click on the “Bookstore,” tan above to check it out. It is also on a special sale.

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Today’s excerpt is about Father’s Day and the importance of loving your children.

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Chapter 56

 

I Child-Proofed My House—and They Still Get In

 

Righteous Father, though the world does not know you, I know you, and they know that you have sent me. I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.

John 17:25–26

 

When Father’s Day nears, I’m glad I’m finally old enough to have all the neckties I need, so no one gives me one as a gift. Instead of another tie, I get to share time with my children and grandchildren. What could be a better present than that? The answer to my question is that the very best present I ever got on a Father’s Day was that my daughter DG was born on that day. Top that one!

Father’s Day is a time for men to think about their roles. Men, we are to be the leaders of our families (not in an “I’m the one in charge here” sort of way, mind you) and should play the role of hero to our children.

We as men sometimes think that on Father’s Day we should be treated to a day of watching sports or doing whatever we want—that would be the “manly” thing to do. I once thought that myself. Sports came first. I got irritated when I got disturbed by the rest of the family. God changed that for me, and I have a totally different outlook on Father’s Day.

On Father’s Day in 2003, my son, my granddaughter and I went to church together. I enjoyed the day very much. The sermon was based on John 17:25–26. It is about Jesus praying to God just before He was betrayed by Judas.

As I read verse 26, I could see that it was perfect for us as fathers. Just go through verse 26 along with me. It reads: “I have made you known to them, and will continue to make you known in order that the love you have for me may be in them and that I myself may be in them.”

Every father needs to say this prayer! We should be making God known to our children, just as Jesus made Him known to all of His children. Pastor Scott Nelson ofMorningstarCommunityChurchinSalem,Oregon, made this very true statement: “A father needs to live the Word of God, not just teach it.” We need to be the hero in our children’s lives.

We dads may often feel we have failed as a father. We didn’t play catch with our children as often as we should have when they were little. We didn’t take them to the park as often as we think we should have. And sometimes we’ve put material things ahead of our children. You’re not alone. There is not one father who has not felt some guilt in this situation.

But we can’t let this cause us to think we’re a failure as fathers! Satan loves to try to pull us down by causing confusion in our lives. As a matter of fact there is often a battle going on with the devil because of the circumstances God has allowed into our lives.

Yes, God allows things to happen to us. Why would He do this? Why wouldn’t He just protect us all the time?

I have learned that God uses these situations in an effort to teach me something. When I feel up against it, I really need to ask myself these questions: “What is God trying to teach me? What should I learn from this trial? What has God planned for me from this situation?”

Let me make something very clear: God wants us to depend on Him. He wants to flood our souls with His love. He wants us to seek adventures (often cleverly disguised as adversity) and let Him guide us. It may be difficult at the moment to see adversity as God breaking you and shaping you during a trial, but that is what He is doing.

I went through that in my life. I finally gave up and let God take over my life. I went through many trials and adversity before I finally let Him take charge and guide me.

There is a song that talks about God knowing my name and my every thought—and even about each of my tears that fall.

Realize that He is with you always! He even knows your name! Our children need to learn this truth from us. They need to know that they have not only an earthly father they also have a heavenly Father. They need to know they will always have someone to turn to.

My challenge to each of you is: What are you doing to make sure your children know God? Today is the first day of the rest of your life. If you feel you have had a battle going on in your life and you haven’t spent enough time teaching your children about God, start now! I don’t care if you just become a father and have a newborn, or you’re a grandparent. You are still the father of your children until you go to be with the Lord. Show them by example what it means to follow God. Talk to them about how God has blessed you. They will see the love you have for not only them, but for God.

 

These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts.

Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and

when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.

Deuteronomy 6:6–7

Further Adventures

June is Father’s Month. It is the month that we as fathers get a little press in our home. It should make you feel good and help you feel wanted. But that is not always the case. Are you a single dad who won’t even see your children on Father’s Day? Have you decided to abandon your children so you won’t ever see them again?

Sounds a little sad, doesn’t it? This is way too common in our society. The broken home rates are getting higher each year. It is much easier to leave a marriage than try to save it. Sounds simpler to just pack up and leave—that will make your life much easier. Not so. The first thing that you as a father need to do is think not only about your marriage, but also about your children. They are in the middle. Your leaving is certainly is not their fault, but they may think it is.

This next Father’s Day, think about where you are in your relationship with your family. Have you tried to reconcile with your wife? Have you done everything you can to have time with your children? Do you care about what happens to them? If you say no to any of these questions, it is time to do a U-turn! Put your family first! It may be a broken family, but do whatever you can to help your children live a happy and normal life. There is nothing more rewarding than that as far as your children go.

 

Something to Ponder

Isn’t it funny how often we get upset with our children, but love them so much?