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The 4th of July is passed, and life will settle back down for us veterans, but will it really?
Many veterans have struggles all year around. They battle PTSD, TBI, depression, homelessness, war wounds, etc.
There are many brother and sister veterans who don’t have the peace they need. They feel they don’t have the support they need. They would rather hide in their bed all day.
I feel for these heroes. They served their country and should be respected, and get the treatment they need.
If you know of someone who is suffering, reach out to them. Show them they matter. It could in your own family.
The hard part is that many veterans don’t want people to know they are hurting. They hide in their little world and try to go at it alone. Some many suicides happen because of this. There are 22 veteran suicides everyday. I didn’t say every week, or even every year. This is everyday.
How do you know if a veteran is hurting?
- Have their feelings changed about the world since they left the military? Often this is a sign of an inner battle going on inside them.
- Do they seem distant and do not want to talk about their experiences from the military? This is a sign of PTSD.
- Do they get angry easily? Another sign of PTSD.
- Do they refuse to get help? They feel they are suppose to be tough guys, and not seek help.
- Do they break down crying and they don’t know why? The memories come rising up in their brains like a huge tidal wave.
- Are they abusive? Domestic violence has no place in the homes, but PTSD often causes it.
So what can we do about it?
- Love them unconditionally. Not matter how hard it gets your consistent love will overcome them eventually.
- Make them seek help. This is one huge step to their recovery. They will probably fight this, but you might have to let them know that it is a deal breaker if they don’t get help.
- Try to make their environment stress free as possible. If it is near the 4th of July, go for a trip away for the fireworks for a couple of days. It will be a good bonding time, and the veteran will not be jittery from the noise.
- Listen to them! If they want to talk that is a huge break through.
I fully understand that it is hard on the whole family. You are probably close to battling depression yourself. Stay strong, you may be the only hope for a struggling veteran.
You are never alone.
You are never forsaken.
You are never unloved.
And above all…never, ever, give up!